People are often surprised to learn that Leap and I occasionally enjoy a date night at the theme parks. Yes, without the tadpoles. They are further surprised to learn that we find romantic things to do at the theme parks, especially Disneyland. The resort, like its counterpart in Orlando, has plenty of fun date options and opportunities for romance. In fact, Leap and I recently had a kid-free romantic stay at Disney's Grand Californian Hotel and Spa and a night out at Sweethearts' Nite, a Disneyland After Dark event. It might have been one of our most romantic trips yet!
In February, the Valentine's Day celebration and the Disneyland After Dark Sweethearts' Nite always help us bring back that lovin' feeling. Sweethearts' Nite came back with even more dates for 2023! This event is so popular that they all sold out in advance. But even a spontaneous date at Disneyland can spark joy in our hearts. We thought we would share some ideas about romantic things to do at Disneyland for Valentine's Day, or any day of the year. Take note so that you can plan a special date night for you and your sweetheart at the Happiest Place on Earth!
Romantic Things to Do at Disneyland
You can always kindle that spark at Disneyland Resort, whether it is Valentine's Day or any day of the year, with sweet treats and couples merchandise — and simply enjoying the parks together.
Eat Sweet Treats Around Valentine's Day
We start with our favorite Valentine's treats the whole family can enjoy. The candy shops have Valentine's crispy treats, cake pops, chocolate-covered strawberries and more. The Bee Mine crispy is back but not the Bee Mine apple. Fortunately, there is a toadally cute Oswald apple available at Trolley Treats (through Feb. 16). Leap knows a Disneyland caramel apple is the way to my heart any day of the year! You can find boxes of Disney chocolates in the candy shops, too.
The lobby of the Grand California Hotel & Spa has a cart filled with Valentine's (through Feb. 26) and Lunar New Year (through Feb. 14) treats. There are cookies, crispies, macarons and chocolate-dipped strawberries and more for sale. Find more special items, such as doughnuts, at Craftsman Grill. Specialty drinks can also be found at GCH Craftsman Grill and Hearthstone Lounge. At the Disneyland Hotel, find special offerings at Coffee House and Trader Sam's Enchanted Tiki Bar.
Many of the theme park's restaurants and food stands offer special menu items and heart-shaped desserts (beignets and cookies — yum!) around Valentine's Day.
Be on the lookout for strawberry cheesecake pretzels and strawberry cookies and cream churros (in Frontierland). There are so many more sweet treats such as the chocolate-strawberry funnel cake at Stage Door Café or the Love Stuff at Red Rose Taverne (both available through Feb. 28). Hop into Clarabelle’s Hand-Scooped Ice Cream (available Feb. 10-14) for the Sweetheart Sundae and Valentine’s sprinkles. You can mobile order some of these delicious treats I just mentioned, too!
At Lamplight Lounge and Lamplight Lounge — Boardwalk Dining, you can enjoy specialty drinks available Feb. 10-14):
- A Toast to Love Flight: Three miniature cocktails featuring a spicy cocktail, a bitter cocktail and a sweet cocktail.
- The Flame: Bacardi Raspberry Rum, peach schnapps, mango purée, raspberry purée, lime juice, Sprite and firewater bitters with a chile-lime rim.
- The Ex: Absolut Citron Vodka, spicy bitters, blackberries, lemonade, agave nectar and lemon juice.
- The Love That Lasts a Lifetime: Bacardi Raspberry Rum, St. George, orgeat, raspberry purée, pineapple juice and Sprite.
There is even a Valentine's Day popcorn bucket available for purchase in 2023!
Around Downtown Disney, you can find other tasty treats for your sweetie. The California Churro cart offers a chocolate-covered strawberry churro. Kayla's Cakes sells a Valentine's Day gift box of macarons. You and your love can cozy up to share a shake at Black Tap and enjoy the (very delicious) Red Velvet Cake Shake! Even Wetzel’s Pretzels offers a Choco Churro Bitz and Frozen Horchata Bundle (available through Feb. 28). Uva Bar & Cafe makes a Scarlett Kiss cocktail, consisting of raspberry rum, lemon juice, simple syrup, lemonade, soda water, fresh berries and a splash of raspberry purée.
Sprinkles offers several items (available through Feb. 19):
- Raspberry Chocolate Chip Cupcake + Layer Cake: Chocolate chip-studded Belgian dark chocolate cake topped with luscious raspberry frosting
- Heartthrob Red Velvet: Red velvet cake topped with cream cheese frosting finished with an exclusive blend of Fancy Sprinkles
- I Love You Box: Four red velvet, four vanilla and four raspberry chocolate chip cupcakes
- XOXO Box: Three dark chocolate, three red velvet, three vanilla and three raspberry chocolate chip cupcakes
Buy Valentine's Gifts for Each Other
We have spotted matching couples' shirts and other Valentine's merch each year. Whether your partner is your Mickey or Minnie, or your Foolish Mortal, there's something for all kinds of romantic Disney fans. You can also buy a Valentine's Day ear headband, but you need to hop on those ears early in the day due to limited inventory. The Disney Dress Shop in Downtown Disney has a Valentine's Day shirt and some Valentine's Dooney and Bourke bags if you are looking for a gift (hint, hint). The shops on Main Street, U.S.A. also have Valentine's Day items. Give your loved ones a Valentine's Day character plush!
You can usually find Valentine's pink and red balloons bobbing about the parks. You'll see couples, friends and family members in their Valentine's ears, Disney shirts or even just wearing red and pink in the parks.
Hire a Babysitter
Hiring a sitter isn't all that romantic, but you'll need to do just that if you want to escape the little ones for a few hours. Depending on the age of your children, you can find a babysitting option that will meet their needs. If you are staying on-site, you can talk to the front desk about hiring a sitter.
Another option is to travel with a group of family or friends and either enlist the help of Grandma to babysit or take turns watching the group of kids so that each couple can have one night off. Once you know the tadpoles are happy and entertained, you can relax and enjoy your night out.
Go to the Spa
Leap and I recently treated ourselves to spa treatments at Disney's Grand Californian Hotel & Spa. Best. Gift. Ever. Look for a special Rosé and Roses foot treatment available through Feb. 15!
You no longer have to be a hotel guest to use the spa there. The spa is located just inside the hotel entrance located in Disney California Adventure Park. So, even if you're just visiting the theme park for a day, you can easily hop over to the spa and get a foot massage. It's one of the most affordable treatments there. Your flippers — and your partner — will be thanking you. This massage (and other treatments) makes a great romantic surprise. Plus, it's easier to be romantic when you're relaxed and feeling good. You'll also be able to extend your time in the parks with blissfully hoppy feet!
Romantic Disneyland Restaurants, Bars and More
There are many very nice romantic Disneyland restaurants to choose from in the parks or hotels. In Disneyland Park, the most romantic restaurant is Blue Bayou, located on the water in the Pirates of the Caribbean attraction. It's always evening inside no matter when you eat! It now serves wine, beer and themed cocktails. Reservations open 60 days in advance at 6 a.m. (sometimes 3 a.m.), but if you don't get one, try joining the walk-up list in the Disneyland app. But you don’t have to spend a ton of green to be romantic! Rancho del Zocalo hosts a room alight with star lanterns, and you'll find a nice, romantic atmosphere in the evening. At Carnation Café, you can sit in the gazebo while you enjoy the sights and sounds of Main Street.
Add a special viewing area to your itinerary for a nighttime entertainment surprise. You can purchase a Fantasmic! dining package at River Belle Terrace and upgrade to watch the show from your table. Hop over to our post on Disneyland Fantasmic! tips for the details. We go over all the Disneyland show and parade dining packages in our Disneyland dining packages post. The most romantic ones include the Fantasmic! dining package at Blue Bayou or the World of Color Dessert Party!
Our favorite table-service restaurants are over in Disney's California Adventure Park and Disneyland Resort hotels. Carthay Circle in California Adventure is our favorite because of its classy atmosphere, attentive service and quality menu — whether we want to make reservations in the dining room or get some drinks and tasty bites to share in the lounge.
The view of the Disneyland fireworks from the terrace is fantastic, so if you can time it right, you could enjoy this treat. First, decide which night you want to visit and check out the showtimes for fireworks. Then, try to snag a reservation before that time. If you can pull this off, you will sweep your partner right off their feet! If the shooting stars do not align for this, a private booth is also very romantic.
The Lamplight Lounge is a California gastropub with tasty food, fun fizzy adult drinks, Pixar artwork and memorabilia, and a cool vibe. The bottom level is the full restaurant and accepts reservations. It's especially great if you're a Pixar fan (and who isn’t?). The exterior seating has open-air tables with fire pits and spectacular views of the water. The upstairs room has walk-up availability only and a slightly different menu. You can’t go wrong at either, especially around sunset. The Boardwalk Dining upstairs is walk-up only. You can join the walk-up list in the Disneyland app.
You don’t even have to enter the parks to have a romantic evening. Disney's Grand Californian Hotel has a romantic, yet casual, lobby. Even if you are not staying there, you can hang out near the fireplace, sip drinks from the bar and listen to piano music. Leap and I have even brought a deck of cards to play together while we relaxed. The Napa Rose restaurant is a very nice place for a romantic dinner with delicious food.
Over at the Disneyland Hotel, Trader Sam’s has an outdoor fireplace lounge area that is a nice place to get cozy while you listen to some live music and enjoy some tropical drinks that make you feel as if you’ve gone on a Jungle Cruise. Inside the Tiki Bar, you can get swept away to a tropical paradise (with a tropical storm for effect should somebody order the right drink). Hop over to our post on Trader Sam's Enchanted Tiki Bar for all of the fun details. Is the wait too long? Can't get in? You can order the same food from Tangaroa Terrace next door, complete with tiki torches in your dining area. The outside bar is easier to access for your island feels.
Take Pictures Together
If you have Disney Genie+, it includes unlimited downloads of PhotoPass photos. You can take sweet professional pics together at iconic spots around the park. Grab a free Happily Ever After button and use it as a photo prop!
Go Wine or Beer Tasting
You don’t need a trip to California's Napa Valley to go wine tasting. You can enjoy a nice glass and an Italian meal at Wine Country Trattoria. Not hungry? You can taste wine from California and around the world at Mendocino Terrace. The upstairs Magic Key Terrace is reserved for Magic Key holders and their guests. It serves wine, fun cocktails and Tuscany-inspired small bites and appetizers, such as a charcuterie tray. Sonoma Terrace offers draft beers, craft beers, hard cider and wine selections at its shady patio.
During festivals, such as the Food & Wine Festival, Festival of Holidays and Lunar New Year, you can enjoy themed beverages served from festival booths. The Food & Wine Festival, in particular, offers plenty of opportunities to taste wines at restaurants or festival marketplaces and even attend seminars and meal pairings for an extra-special experience with your loved one.
Wear Matching Shirts or DisneyBound Together
If you're both Disney fans, you'll be the cutest couple in the park if you wear matching shirts. We see many couples in their matching Minnie and Mickey shirts or channeling their favorite Disney couples through their wardrobe. While adults cannot dress in costume, they can use their street clothes to wear the color scheme, style and pattern of a character. We see a lot of couples dressing up together on Dapper Day!
Send Sweet Surprises
Remember the days when your partner would surprise you with flowers just because? Send some flowers or another treat that they would enjoy to your hotel room. You can order romantic packages sent to your room (if you stay on-site) that include rose petals, candles and chocolate-covered strawberries, but if you plan ahead and pack some items from home, you can probably manage this yourself and save some extra money (and you know how we frogs love saving some green!). There are in-room celebrations through Disney Floral and Gifts, but they tend to be on the pricey side. You can also hop into the candy shops for chocolate-covered strawberries, cake pops, crisp treats and other romantic treats for sweet in-park surprises you picked out yourself.
Leap knows the secret to unlocking my heart is churro toffee or a Disneyland caramel apple. Luckily, these favorite Disneyland snacks are available both inside and outside the parks (at Marceline's Confectionery in Downtown Disney) every day of the year! So, even if you can't make it into the park, you can still acquire some sweet surprises for your sweetie!
Plan a Romantic Surprise
Being romantic does not have to cost you a pretty penny. If you are stealthy, you just might be able to pull off a ride surprise. Once, when we got off of Space Mountain and were looking at the monitors for our photo, we saw that the train in front of us was part of a marriage proposal. He held up a sign that said, “Will You Marry Me?” just as the camera flashed. The other friends or family in the car were in on the surprise as they wore matching “Awwww!” facial expressions. And once she saw the photo, he got down on one knee, pulled out a ring and popped the question.
You might be able to pull something off that your partner will not discover until they see the ride photo. Maybe a Valentine's heart that says “Kiss Me” or “Be Mine” will do. Just be sure to hide it until you get on the ride and then have it ready to go. Aim for a front seat, and watch our YouTube ride videos to prepare!
Disneyland is a popular spot to pop the question, and there are so many ways to do it. Several years ago, we saw another adorable (and matching!) couple get engaged when they met Mickey Mouse at his house in Toontown!
We've also hoppened upon several engagements in front of Sleeping Beauty Castle and the Millennium Falcon. This just goes to show that what's romantic to one couple can be very different for another couple, and Disneyland seems to have something special for each one.
There are other ways to make a romantic gesture. Make a wish at the wishing well at Snow White’s Grotto, get your picture taken together inside a teacup or snuggle up during the nighttime shows, such as World of Color, fireworks or Fantasmic!
Hold hands as you walk around the park or cuddle up on the scary or dark rides. You may be tempted to steal a kiss on the dark rides, but remember, there is no place hidden from cameras — even in the dark rides they can see everything that goes on — so keep it sweet. The Little Mermaid in California Adventure is sure to make you want to “Kiss the Girl.” The Pixar Pal-a-Round offers nice sunset views of the area and may offer you some alone time if you get your own gondola (but make sure you don't suffer from motion sickness). One of the best rides for couples is Astro Orbitor in Tomorrowland. You sit nestled one in front of the other and can snuggle the whole ride. Plus, you can soar up high to get a great view of the park!
Any of the boat rides, such as Pirates of the Caribbean or Storybook Land Canal Boats, are reminiscent of a gondola ride — except “it’s a small world.” We don’t think there is much that's romantic about that one (although we heard of someone getting engaged there, so what do we know?). We usually save that one for the tadpoles.
While you aren't going to get a true chance to slow dance, if you and your partner like upbeat music and dancing, then you have a couple of choices. At different times of the year, there are dance parties in either park, especially during After Dark parties or New Year's Eve. There is always plenty of live music to listen to as you stroll through Downtown Disney.
Make it a Date Night at Sweethearts' Nite
Sweethearts' Nite takes place several nights from 9 p.m. to 1 a.m. after Disneyland Park closes to the public. Guests can meet rare Disney couples, attend a ball or DJ dance party, or take photos in front of photo-ops themed after romantic scenes from Disney movies. There are special treats and foods not available during the day. There is also a special fireworks show set to Disney love songs. Can you feel the love tonight? We certainly did! Hop over to our Disneyland After Dark post to see more photos and learn more.
Be aware, if you are planning a visit to the parks in late January or early February, that Disneyland closes early at 8 p.m. on party nights. Check the park hours before you make a day visit so your visit doesn't end before you want it to. You can usually purchase the next Sweethearts' Nite in early December. Tickets sell out quickly, so do not delay. You'll need to plan ahead.
Eat Romantic Treats Year-Round
Share a delectable dessert such as some chocolate-covered strawberries or even a hand-dipped banana or ice cream. If you would like to share ice cream at Gibson Girl on Main Street, you can be romantic any day of the year and save money. I know Leap jumps at those opportunities! Here’s how: One scoop of ice cream is $5.29, but two scoops of ice cream are $5.99. That’s double the ice cream for just $.70 more! You can even get different flavors for those scoops. (A third scoop is just 50 cents more!) Ask for another cup and spoon if you don’t want to take turns. The parks also sell some homemade Valentine's Day treats such as heart-shaped crispy treats and more.
You can share a booth and a shake at Flo’s V-8 retro diner while you watch the hills of Radiator Springs and Cars Land light up after dusk. Who says it has to be fancy to be romantic? Once the lights turn on at dusk, either park feels more romantic, but we think it's especially romantic during Valentine’s Day at Disneyland Park. All of the nighttime lights at Holiday Time are also romantic. What can we say? We are suckers for all things Disney, and good lighting!
Visit on or Around Valentine’s Day
For the past few years, about a week before Valentine’s Day, guests can run into surprise, sweetheart character couples and have their photos taken. On Valentine's Day, you can see and choose from additional Valentine's Day photo frames with PhotoPass photographers.
Now that the Sweethearts' Nite party has more dates, you may see the Valentine decor and Disney couples reserved for that event in the park. Instead, look for Valentine's decor around the resort for a more accessible romantic photo backdrop.
Princesses and their rarely-seen princes may join together to greet guests and royal subjects. Usually, they are off ruling their kingdoms, but the princes often join their princesses for Sweethearts' Nite. You might even spot a different sweetheart couple who are not royalty.
During normal days around Valentine's Day, ask cast members who work with characters where you might find the sweetheart couple of the day. These rare appearances will not appear on the Disneyland app. You’ll see romantic balloons and special treats in the parks, and many couples in their matching Disney shirts, ears or other accessories.
Just being at Disneyland makes us feel young and playful again! We prefer having Park Hopper tickets because we enjoy hopping between parks, but you can definitely make a romantic date by just visiting one park or staying in the hotels. Couples who play together, stay together! Just ask Mickey and Minnie. Making a park date can rekindle your closeness and help you focus on your partner. That way, you can rejuvenate and jump back into family mode.
We hope you've enjoyed our ideas of romantic things to do at Disneyland. Have a tip you want to share? Leave it in the comments below! And don't froget, nothing says romance like a trip to Disneyland. Surprise your sweetie with discount Disneyland tickets or a hotel stay from your favorite frogs.
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